I’m a man (and I can change, if I have to, I guess), and have never been in a relationship yet.
But I can say for ABSOLUTE CERTAIN that I want clear communication from her to understand when things change. Because I’m sure not going to notice when they do…
Keep in mind that women who date with marriage and kids in mind have limited time. By our late twenties our biological clocks are ticking REALLY loudly, and the older we get, the harder it is to conceive. It makes us think about the future.
Some 25 years ago (wow really) I had a girlfriend blow up at me and break it off because of some question I asked on the phone on a Sunday morning. No idea why, AND she wouldn’t tell me. I can’t fix or change something without knowing what the problem is.
Men…
I’m a man (and I can change, if I have to, I guess), and have never been in a relationship yet.
But I can say for ABSOLUTE CERTAIN that I want clear communication from her to understand when things change. Because I’m sure not going to notice when they do…
Carl.
Keep in mind that women who date with marriage and kids in mind have limited time. By our late twenties our biological clocks are ticking REALLY loudly, and the older we get, the harder it is to conceive. It makes us think about the future.
Some 25 years ago (wow really) I had a girlfriend blow up at me and break it off because of some question I asked on the phone on a Sunday morning. No idea why, AND she wouldn’t tell me. I can’t fix or change something without knowing what the problem is.
points to Carl for the Possum Lodge reference!
Spock, on Vulcan women are logical! No other world in the galaxy can make that claim! – James T. Kirk
Communication is key people.