Weddings are pretty much designed to be the bride’s big day… even if he helps plan it the groom is often nothing more than an actor playing a part. Sure, he is doing it for the bride but very often his wants and needs will barely be considered if at all. Most guys I know would prefer a small wedding.
what, he already did the hard part, he bought a ring and asked!
(I’m kidding, ladies, please put down the tomatoes …)
The marriage is what matters, not the wedding.
Weddings are pretty much designed to be the bride’s big day… even if he helps plan it the groom is often nothing more than an actor playing a part. Sure, he is doing it for the bride but very often his wants and needs will barely be considered if at all. Most guys I know would prefer a small wedding.